a temper ~ 脾气


“i love young women who are angry. but if you don’t transcend that, you become a very disturbed 40-year-old.”

– Singer Tori Amos, 41

i threw a temper the day before over some domestic issues and stalked out of the flat to simmer down. this is the first time i stalked out of the flate in anger. Yesterday, mom said,

“you should learn to rein in your temper.”

i kept quiet. but i cant help but to think of all those murder cases where a quiet and sweet tempered person went bersek and start chopping up people. I would rather throw a temper once in a while to get it out of my system rather than keeping it inside me till i couldnt take it anymore and start hacking up people. I would rather be known as a bad-tempered person than a sweet tempered human who suddenly hacked up a person.

“我喜欢愤怒的年轻女子。如果你没发泄出来,你将长大成心理不平衡的40岁女人。”

– 歌手Tori Amos, 41

我前天为了一些家里的事发脾气而夺门而出。我第一次因为太生气了而夺门而出。昨天妈妈对我说:
“你该学会控制你的脾气。”

我沉默不语。但是心理却不禁想到那些暴力谋杀案件,总是有一个沉默、没脾气的人忽然发狂而谋杀人。我宁可偶尔发发脾气、有点发泄,也不要把一切都闷在心理而发狂砍人。我宁可被人视为一个爆遭的人,也不要做一个发狂的杀人犯。

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3 Responses to a temper ~ 脾气

  1. mel says:

    Agree that you should let it out of your system. Pent-up anger is bad for health :)

  2. YL says:

    kekeke… thanks!

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