潇洒

三个月前,在新加坡的某家连锁咖啡厅:

A:三年的感情!!三年了!!就这样完了!!为什么??
我:嗯。。。能问你一个问题吗??
A:行!!
我:你舍不得的是什么??是那三年还是那感情??
A:*无言以对*
我:如果你舍不得的是那三年,那我会劝你放开它吧!!选择分得干干净净的,好过拖泥带水,耽误了自己,耽误了他。因为你接下来还有很多的三年要过。

如果你舍不得的是那段感情,那我就觉得你应该找他谈谈,努力挽回你的幸福。就算是他去意以绝,至少你可以说,你为了自己的幸福努力过,争取过,也不算对不起自己了。

A,在你伤心透了的时候说这么直接而自以为是的话语,我很残忍。是我心直口快了,但是话说了,就不能象电脑一样方便,点击UNDO就回原形。对不起。

今天,我的电话响了。

A:YL,老是没与你联络,对不起。其实,我和他在那天过后的几天就复合了,是我没信心,所以没和任何人说起。现在,我们计划要结婚了。
我:啊,恭喜!!
A:谢谢你。

A,祝福你与你的他永远幸福。

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5 Responses to 潇洒

  1. Zara's mum says:

    so it was the 感情, not the 三年.
    Good for your friend.

    Sometimes we just hold on to something b’cos we thought we spent too much time on it.. which is the wrong reason, esp for relationship.

  2. YL says:

    yeah… and they promised me the right to give the chinese names of all their offsprings!!!! but i know tat because all their chinese are limited companies whereas mine is, i dare say, preparing for stock listing. see how compare and contrast helps!!

    anyway, i promised i would not embarass any poor offsprings they might have!! :D

  3. kelly says:

    我曾经想过要放弃八年的感情,想的时候觉得自己很洒脱,但等到面对他时就整个人都溶化了。慧剑斩情丝,谈何容易……

  4. YL says:

    人非草木,感情也不是受开关所控制的。但是有时候,还是得要想一想自己舍不得的事是什么。。。

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