Yesterday was 10.10.10, the auspicious triple “10”. Many people said that this is a real rare chance. Hence almost everyone with the intention to get married rushed to get married on this super special day. “It’s a memorable day! We will remember our anniversary easily!”
In a marriage, which is more important? International superstar Jackie Chan once said in an interview with Lu Yu that he does not celebrate Father’s Day or any other special day. Because he is good to them every day. Of course if that is actually the case, then it would be perfect! That we do not need a special day to be nice to the significant ones in our lives.
However, by then, if everyday is just as nice, then what’s a special day?
But if two person cherishes each other, living together happily, they would definitely take special notice of each other’s needs. By then, why would we need a special day to remember by? Perhaps, he might have seen something that you need or knew that you would love to have, why wait for a special day to buy it for you? Actually, this is romance, and not be nice to each other and celebrating the special day only.
When the feelings of both parties had faded and they do not care for each other any more, even if the anniversary is on a special once-in-a-lifetime special date, they would work hard to avoid or forget about it. By then, when the environment kept giving reminders since it is such a special day, wouldn’t everyone be so awkward?