Familiarity & closeness ~ 熟悉与亲切

I wonder if anyone has this feeling towards someone. The feeling of extreme familiarity and closeness towards someone of the opposite sex. Like that supposed stranger is somewhat your family. Say, an elder brother.

He has a streak that you would usually find particularly distasteful when it comes to other people. However, when that particular someone displays that particular distasteful streak, you would be able to accept it or even laugh at it. Somehow, there would be this strong sense of being, like I mentioned, an elder brother. That you would always be tempted to want to call Da GeGe so instead of addressing by his name or his social title.

Perhaps it is because he fits into your impression of how an elder brother should be. Perhaps it is because I used to want an elder brother and a younger sister instead of the elder sister and younger brother I had. Well, I didn’t know any better back then, you see. Perhaps it is because the previous person whom I thought was the impression of a good elder brother had disappointed me in some ways. Hence I imposed the impression of an elder brother on him.

But that feeling is there. Oh, please do not suggest anything incestuous. I know how some particular immature individuals like to use that term as a romantic euphemism. I am waaaaaaaaaay past that age of infatuation. I dare say I can clearly tell the difference. It is just that feeling of familiarity and closeness that made me always having to keep in check that I do not do something silly. Like call him Da GeGe out of the blue without provocation (Can’t blame me if I am being provoked, right? :P).

But he is Da GeGe.

Strange, isn’t it?

我在想,有没有人是否曾经有这种感觉。就是对某位异性的人有一种很亲切,很熟悉的感觉。好象对方就是你的一家人一样。就象一个大哥哥

他或许拥有某件在别人身上会让你很反感的习惯。但是就因为是在他身上找到的习惯,你却能接受,甚至能逗你笑。不知道为什么,潜意识就是有那种,正如我所说的,大哥哥的感觉。强烈的让你真的很想就别叫他的名字或“老师”,就直接叫他“大哥哥”算了。

或许就是因为他吻合你对一位大哥哥所该有的形象吧!或许是因为自己曾经想拥有一个大哥哥与一个妹妹而不是一个姐姐与一个弟弟吧!当年不懂事嘛!!或许是因为之前被我尊重为大哥哥的人在某一点上让我失望了吧!所以就把那大哥哥的形象强行套在他身上。

但是那感觉就在啊。哦,请你们别胡思乱想了。我知道某些思想幼稚的人会在“大哥哥”等等的名词上套上一些奇怪的代号。但是我不属于那年龄层的人。我可以很肯定的说我清楚那不同。就是那亲切与熟悉的感觉让我要节约一点,别傻理傻气地在没有被激的情况下,去糊乱叫人“大哥哥”。(被激的时候可怪不得我了。。。)

但是,他就是大哥哥啊。

奇怪哦?

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