Monthly Archives: September 2007

她、他与他的她

我与她约了喝东西,因为她说她心情不好,人好累。她烦恼,因为他与他的另一个她,还没解决他们之间的关系。他的她,仍然很爱他,仍然与孩子们等着他们的守护星回心转意,回到他们的身边。但是她说,他现在不爱他的她了,就只爱她一个。因为是他对她说的,所以她相信她的他了。 我好想问她:真的吗??他不也曾经告诉他的她这些话吗??他岂止对他的她说过这些话,他多办还曾经对他的她说会爱她一辈子呢!他也在亲友面前答应他的她会永远爱她、尊敬她、守护她,不论富裕或贫穷,在健康或病痛。对我而言,我无法相信他的话,也不明白比我精明至少一倍的她为什么会相信他呢?她应该很清楚地了 解那种等待着家中的他回来,间中的那种痛苦。毕竟她也曾过着与妈妈等待妈妈的他回来的日子啊。 她说,她也不想这样。她真的很爱他。我不禁要想:她到底是爱他,还是爱着那种有妈妈的他疼爱的感觉呢?她说,他告诉她,见到了她,他有了活力,也知道什么叫做生命力。我又怀疑:将来她的年龄与他现在的她相同的时候,他是否会对另一个更年轻、能给他活力、让他再次认识到生命力的她说这些话呢? 或许是我单纯。但是这就是她口中所谓的追求、争取自己的幸福吗??追求的感觉,到底是互相的爱护,还是各怀鬼胎,各有各的打算呢?一个想要享受当年没什么机会享受的那种被妈妈的他疼爱的感觉, 另一个想要享受被还年轻、仍然没什么牵挂的她当做生活重心的感觉呢?到底是少女情怀,还是男人的中年危机在作祟啊?? 在许多人的眼里,一加一绝对是等于二。一个他,加上她,就希望是二人永远的幸福与快乐。但是,对电脑数学有底的人就会知道在电脑数学中有一种记数法,称做二进制。采用0与1 两个数码来计算。在二进制当中,一加一等于10。记数法用得不贴切,一个他,加上她,等于10个他们要伤心、要受伤、要痛苦。到最后,或许一开始就不应该把他与她加在一起。 幸福这码事,不需要去挣,不需要去强,不需要去追求。它其实就在大家的身边,只等着你去享受,去珍惜,去爱护。

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Music ~ 音乐

Every time I switched on my computer, the first application I run is my Firefox browser (Yahoo Messenger and MSN is on auto login mode every time I boot up.), followed by Windows Media Player. Yes, music is a major … Continue reading

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Journey ~ Corinne May

It’s a long long journey Till I know where I’m supposed to be It’s a long long journey And I don’t know if I can believe When shadows fall and block my eyes I am lost and know that I … Continue reading

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Think before sending off that pesky e-mail

Think before sending off that pesky e-mail By Janice Tay For The Straits Times Saturday, September 22, 2007 WARNING: This column may upset you. Though if you have to handle queries of any kind, it may strike a painfully resonant … Continue reading

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一首粤语歌

恭祝你福寿与天齐、 庆贺你生呈快乐、 年年都有今天、 岁岁都有今朝、 恭喜你、 恭喜你。。。

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我在想。。。

。。。中文真可爱。 如果画一个四方格,但是在中间打一个洞,那就是一个凹了。如果你把那个洞填得过满,那它就会凸出来。 把东西叠得不正,它其实就是歪的。我不禁要想:为什么东西不好是孬(nao1)而不是坏呢??

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Dictionaries ~ 字典

Do you remember your first Chinese dictionary? I remember my first Chinese dictionary was one with a yellow-green and yellow covered one where I got it as some form of award in school. My second Chinese Dictionary was one that … Continue reading

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Facebook

I have joined Facebook. Can anyone advise this silly boozoo here: Now what?? Sit back and relax?? I am not offending anyone by accepting their invites, then sit back and relax right? What am I supposed to do?!?! What am … Continue reading

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Familiarity & closeness ~ 熟悉与亲切

I wonder if anyone has this feeling towards someone. The feeling of extreme familiarity and closeness towards someone of the opposite sex. Like that supposed stranger is somewhat your family. Say, an elder brother. He has a streak that you … Continue reading

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Splitting up work ~ 分工合作

“You vacuum the floor, I will mop it later. Then, now, I shall boil water, you make the tea later.” Just these two sentences made me realize: So, that’s how my parents actually split up the work and play their … Continue reading

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